Weekend in Tønder Commune

The used to be maid house of Schackenborg Castle – It is located just beside the castle

The first time that I heard of Tønder was when Dave and I visited a consultant for our dual citizenships marriage in Hamburg. We were too naive thinking how difficult it could be getting married here since it is supposed to be a jolly moment where two individuals consciously decide in an official state merging into one conundrum for their lifetime. 

So, were we right? The answer is no. Getting married is a hard bureaucratic process since it involves a lot of official documents that need to be translated, legalized, and delivered within a specific period of time, especially if the marriage is involving a non EU nation. It was an exhausting process, that we looked out for another alternative in getting hitched. Our consultant said that we shall do it rather in Denmark, specifically in Tønder Commune since it is just in the near from Hamburg and it requires way less documents. 

Enough with marriage stuff, let’s talk more about Tønder. We went here for a weekend getaway. And as we were there, we couldn’t help, but wonder how our wedding would be if it was held here.

Another mandatory walking slash hiking selfie – This time in Tønder

Just like other places in Denmark, one would sense “hygge” (feel free to google it) all over the place. Maybe there is something in the cold weather that drives people to make the best out of it in their daily lives. About Tønder itself, it is just a charming little town. Since it is the second oldest town in Denmark, there is a part of history which spark from its building. 

We went to Schackenborg’s Castle in Tønder. It offers two languages of tour which are Danish and English. The castle is equipped with a well maintained park and a proper restaurant. Please note that the prices in Denmark are higher than Germany. But the food and the service of the castle restaurant are satisfying. We ordered Smorrebrod and the chef went out to introduce the dish. And it was so delicious. Never have I ever tried a more delicious Herring in my life. It was marinated to perfection. 

The legendary Herring Smorrebrod at Schackenborg’s Restaurant 

After some medieval time travel tour, one can always go back to the city. We visited the art museum. It was worth a visit since it is one of the most interactive museums that I have ever been to in my life. One can do some art with the natural elements, such as dried wild grass and photo frames. Or if not, you can create your meme with the available printed pictures. Overall, it is a big but quite entertaining museum. Even at some point if you are getting tired of walking and exploring, they have the exhibition and chairs specially made by Hans J. Wagner, the famous Danish designer from Tønder, which you could try and rest yourself a bit.

Dave’s meme in the making 

After the museum, we decided to visit a nearby church, Møgeltønder church. But, unlike any other church, this church has its inner pillars dome which remind me of candy sticks. 

Ain’t it cute?

We were there during Easter time and the city was decorated with an easter egg and bunny theme, which was cute. There was even a Moomin figure in town that gave away flowers to the people. Would Tønder also be a cute city if it is not in a special season like Easter? Try and give it a go yourself 🙂

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I’m Helen,

originally from Indonesia and have been living abroad; Poland, Spain, Belgium, and Germany, for more than five years. Being a part-time nomad has been a part of me and currently I am enthusiastic to explore the world, experience its uniqueness, and share it with you :)

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